If you see a 1000 shillings note on a busy street and no one is bothering to pick it up, you ask yourself some obvious questions;
Am I the only one who is broke?
How is it that no one is interested?
It would be odd if I picked it up, wouldn’t it? You walk past the note thinking, what a strange thing.
That is the attitude of men when they see beautiful ladies that are single.
Men may want to talk to such ladies but the obvious questions come knocking;
How is it that with all the beauty she’s still single?
Guys should be lining up, isn’t it strange that in a room full of guys I’m the only one interested? They walk away thinking, what a strange thing!!
It’s funny how the whole thing can turn you into a Philosopher.
Now why would a guy leave such a lady? Thoughts roam about and you come to a conclusion that is appealing but not necessarily true; this lady must have a weakness or weaknesses that overshadow her beauty.
There is the other line of thought, when guys see a beautiful lady; they conclude that with all that beauty, she must have a boyfriend or a couple of them!! And so, would be suitors don’t approach.
I subscribe to the former thought, that beautiful ladies are sort of “damaged goods” or at least that’s the mentality men have when they see a beautiful lady that has been single for a while.
Men walk away thinking, “With all that beauty she ought to have men lining up for pictures, but since there are none, she must have a problem!”
Ladies, this is my simple attempt to explain why there are no takers!